As the title says, neither me nor my GF are able to fuse the male or female items to any gear. I have been told that it is because all the gear in the game are unisex and they need a male and female only gear which currently does not exist in the game... but how exactly does this make sense?

We both just used 500+ credits on getting these items, and not being able to use them now seems like a complete scam. Can I please get a respond from an admin on this?